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alana: I'm warming up the pole at Lustful Desires getting ready for the 2 pm event...the dance pole of course *winks* (3/3/2010 1:06:55 PM at Desired Dreams)
alana: Hanging out at home before heading to work the 2 pm event at Lustful Desires (3/3/2010 1:00:02 PM at Desperation Vivienne)
Barchan: At the SurfWatch party on Southend sim! Its AWESOME! (2/27/2010 10:32:58 AM at Southend)
Barchan: WOOOT! Checking out the venue for SurfWatch's big birthday party! (Saturday 9am till 9pm) (2/26/2010 1:29:34 PM at Stables)
Kana: SOTM sessions 1 - 11 now available on iTunes and the SoundScape download page (2/26/2010 9:04:19 AM at Stonehaven)
This is something I've been thinking a lot about lately. I go to a lot of clubs in SL. As you know from my previous blogs (which I'm sure you've all read right? RIGHT?!!! lolz!), I DJ at several clubs and DJ and manage at Heroes Nightclub, so this is something that's important to me on a personal and professional level. What makes for a good club experience vs. a bad one?
If you've been in SL for any length of time you've undoubtedly spent a night or two clubbing, bopping around from one club to another in search of a good time. If so you've probably found exactly the same thing I have... finding a club that actually provides a good time can be pretty frustrating.
Most clubs apparently try to follow the "SL Nightclub Formula" for what a nightclub should be. Unfortunately, at least in my opinion, 90% of this formula is pretty much the definition of what a club should NOT be. In fact, most of the stuff most clubs and their staff do is almost geared to chase people out of the club. I'm sure you all know what I'm talking about right? I don't think this stuff is actually written down anywhere, but so many clubs do it that it seems to have become the de-facto standard to how to run a club in SL, even though its totally, completely wrong. Lets take a look at some of the more annoying aspects of this formula.
1) Fake Fun. This is absolutely the most annoying thing you find in clubs. You know what I mean right? The club staff spam the chat with annoying, meaningless gestures. Every 15 seconds somebody Yells "HooOoooOoooooOooooOoooo!!", complete with an equally annoying sound effect that overpowers the music. EVERYBODY TALKS IN CAPS, SO THAT EVERYBODY CAN SEE WHAT FUN YOU'RE HAVING! Machine gun spanking runs amok. God forbid you ever try to have an actual conversation in a place like this, anything you say will get spammed, HoooOoo'd, and Spanked off the screen in a nano-second.
2) Boring Contests and Fake Guests. You know why most clubs have to resort to fake fun? Because their guests are as fake as the fun is. In a nutshell, they resort to paying people to come to their club by running stupid contests like "Best Blue Hat" in the hopes that these people will love the place and become VIPs. The problem is, the people who come for contests like that aren't the least bit interested in the club. For the most part, they're people who have discovered that winning best blue hat contests is a much more efficient way to pick up some free lindys than camping. So they come to the club. They don't talk to anybody other than the friends they TP in to help them win the contest. They don't tip, and they don't do a thing to add to the atmosphere. Basically all they contribute is lag. So what do you get? 15 people in the club, and the only ones talking are the host, DJ, and management staff. And what are they doing? Spamming gestures, Hoooooing, and machine-gun spanking. All I can say is I hope they have the exit clearly marked.
3) Boring, Cookie-Cutter clubs. You know the type. Everything is some gaudy neon blue, or green or purple. There's a raised walk area around the dance floor with some cute tables to sit at, and maybe a second floor with some more neon tables. I'm sure you've seen this place 1000 times, I know I have. It was impressive the first 200 or so times I saw it, but after that it became dull, and then it progressed from dull to annoying. Now when I walk into a club like this I know exactly what I'm going to find even before the place rezzes - Gesture spams, HooooGasms, Spankeriea, and fake guests. Pass.
4) Mass TPs. This is a great way to trim your friends list if that's your goal, because I know if I get 3 of these most annoying things from anyone, they become former friends very quickly. Not only that, but I pretty much make it a point to cross any club that does this off my list of places to go.
5) Badgering people to join the club group. I was at a club with my friend the other day evaluating a host for a possible job at Heroes. She was there for 5 minutes, and in that time received 3 blind requests to join the club group. We both left, and I deleted the landmark.
There is other stuff of course, but those 5 things turn me off faster than a fart in bed, and the sad part is that this seems to be the formula that most clubs are using for a "How To" formula for running a club in SL. If anything this should be a "How Not To" formula.
"Ok Cherry, if you're such a smarty-pants what do YOU suggest for the best way to run a club?" I'm glad you asked! Now just like with DJing I don't claim to have all the answers here, but I'll be more than happy to share my thoughts on what we try to do at Heroes. I'm biased of course, but I think Heroes is a fun club, and I think the fact that we've been around nearly a year and a half and most of our VIPs are regulars at least supports that belief a little bit. I'll go through each of the points above (Which we avoid like the plague), and I'll tell you what we do instead.
1) Ok, we do have some gestures, its pretty much impossible to ban them entirely. I think our gesture/conversation ratio is MUCH better than most clubs though, and most of our staff pretty much only uses them to remind people to tip, request songs, complement the DJ, or stuff like that. We ask our staff not to spank at all (how this ever became thought of as fun is beyond me), and I can't remember the last time I heard a "HoooOooo" (What are we, owls?). What we do instead is hire staff that have actual personalities and love to chat. We avoid "Host-O-matic 5000's", and we hire or train people who enjoy actually interacting with guests rather than assaulting them with Gestures, Spanks, and HooooOooo's. We do have a couple of CAPS TALKERS, but overall we keep that to an absolute minimum too. As a result what we get is a lot of actual funny and fun conversation. In other words, we replace the "Fake" fun with REAL fun.
2) First off, we don't rely on contests to bring people into the club. We focus on fun stuff, and we RARELY offer monetary prizes. When we do run an event with a contest though, its almost always something unusual and unique, something you have not seen in any other club in SL. Our management gets together regularly and brainstorms ideas for new and unique events. We throw out ideas, and when somebody hits on something good we all bounce it around and refine it until we have something we think will work, is unique, and will be fun and often challenging. For prizes we usually offer a costume or something, and occasionally some money but not that often. We want people that come for the fun, not the prize, and that's what our events are designed to provide - actual fun.
3) One thing I can say with absolute confidence, Heroes is one of if not the most unique and interesting looking club you're ever going to see in SL. In 2 years in SL I've never seen anything remotely like it. It was custom built from the ground up (or down, as the case may be). A lot of thought went into it, and it shows. Don't take my word for it, come by and see it sometime and see if you don't agree.
4) There isn't really much I can say about Mass TPs, other than they are strictly prohibited at Heroes. As they should be at every club in SL.
5) I'm not sure we have an actual policy about blind group invites, but if not I'm certainly going to propose that we put one in. Like any other club we love it when somebody joins our group, but we don't dis-respect out guests and try to badger them into it with multiple group invites. Instead, the host will occasionally remind people in local chat to IM the host or DJ if they want to join the group, and if we see new people in the crowd who seem to be enjoying themselves, we may politely ask them in IM if they would like to join the group. If not, we provide our weekly event schedule in a note card and say we understand, but we hope they'll come back and visit us again anyway. You'd be amazed at how many do.
I'm not saying this is some magic formula either. Nor am I saying Heroes is perfect and does everything right, god knows we have stuff we could do better. What I am saying is, if you want to run a successful club then use your brain. Think about what you like in clubs, think about what you hate, and start from there. Or don't, and just follow the cookie formula for clubs. God knows there's always room for one more neon, HooOoo infested club with no respect for their guests and a terminal case of spankeria. Just do me and your guests one favor. When you close up shop in 3 months, give them a LM to Heroes <wink>.
If you love animals, really love them and consider them a part of your family, then by all means, please visit Dogland Park.
I've had 3 years of loss in my life, but nothing as painful as losing a loved one, and yes to me that includes a beloved pet. I've lost 3 in the last 3 years. Two by unnecessarily by a cruel spouse and one just 2 days ago due to severe illness.
As the saying goes, when one door closes another opens. My posting the blog about losing my kitty YinYang brought me to meet the well known and respected Vitolo Rossini, owner and guardian of Dogland Park in SL. Mr. Rossini kindly PM'd me asking if I would like to have my YinYang rest on their Memorial Wall honoring those loved ones who are at Rainbow Bridge waiting for their humans to join them one day.
Last night I took a dear friend/co-worker with me to visit the Memorial Wall to see my post. I was astounded to see so many little furry faces, all happy and well loved and most certainly missed by their human counterparts.
If you have not visited the park, please do so, I assure you, its an experience you will treasure. I had visited on several occassion and walked about, even sat there and watched the dogs come to me one by one. Sadly, until last night I never touched one and to my surprise, you can "pet them" and the all act lovingly - I started to cry. I missed my Lily and Isabella (Pitbulls) so much, yet being there, going thru the motions of petting each and every dog there, was healing to me. I even fed the duckies and hugged a Polar Bear.
The time spen there let me reflect on the short but wonderful times I had with my 2 Pitties and the beautiful 13 yrs I had with my YinYang. Mr. Rossini later spoke to me and invited me back, to play with the dogs and I gladly accepted. I hope to make the time necessary to visit as often as RL permits and remember those little ones that have passed on to a better place and continue the healing process of my own personal loss.
Thank you Vitolo Rossini for such a beautiful place and for the love and care you show these little Furbabies♥
Oi Magazine is looking for you,if you want to showcase your RL town or country Posted 3/13/2010 3:23:07 AM by Carmi - [Show All My Posts]
hi hi everyone!
i wanted to put together an issue of Oi Magazine where avatars write an article about their country or hometown,to showcase the beauty or just the way of life in their city or country from THEIR perspective!
i need people who have ther own RL pictures of their city of country and even other countries if you have traveled a bit
i will pay you for it as well
pictures of the internet dont count,becoz then i mgiht as well write it myself :P
so if you are interested ,let me know!
Carmichael Caudron (editor of Oi Magazine)
PS you can keep your anonymity with the stories we need rl pics of the places,not of your faces! :) Thats optional
Heute lass ich den Blog einfach mal wieder ausfallen...warum? Weil das einer meiner schlimmsten Tage im SL war und ich keine Lust habe darüber zu reden,was sollte ich auch dazu sagen?Das er beschissen war?...Ja genauso war es auch und darum,keine Worte zum gestrigen Tag ich will den nur noch vergessen.Rinoa!
So I saw the new Alice in Wonderland movie last week. I absolutely LOVED it. Supposedly it's more like the book than the Disney version. I've never read the book so I wouldn't know but Disney always screws up the plot to make it more kid-friendly. So I really enjoyed this version. Everyone I've run into has complained about it because it's not like the Disney version. People need to open up their minds more and accept that not all old stories have happy endings like Disney portrays them to be.
Take "The Little Mermaid" for example. The original story is written by Hans Christian Andersen and towards the end of the story, the little mermaid commits suicide because she cannot be with the prince.
Cinderella? The step-sisters cut off their toes and shaved down their feet to try and fit into that slipper.
Disney totally screws stories up so no one should be complaining about the new Alice in Wonderland. It's perfectly fine with me. I love both movies.
The rain was cold in the dark alley, Icy wind blew all warmth from her thin frame, Thin well worn clothes no longer dry, Ice blue hands held tight under her armpits.
So long since she had last eaten, The pangs for food were gone from her mind, Smells from a restaurant made her feel worse, Her stomach so tight no room even for rice.
Her mind rolling back to years so long past, A smiling young girl with no cares the world, Laughing and playing with joy in abandon, Flirting and loving the young guys she had known.
Remembering that day of defiance, When mother had said that he was no good, Pouting with anger the toss of her head, Door slamming behind as to his arms she fled.
We will move away was the words he lovingly said, To the big city she was easily led, Dirty old rooms with rats on the run, But young love is blind to all but the one.
His friends arrived coarse and crude, The drink flowed free her head in a swim, In turns they took her again and again, Her love looking on with an evil grin.
He worked her for months without break, No loving hand or kind word did he make, His fists now stroked her where fingers once trailed, The key would click home as he left her alone.
When he was gone alone she did lay, An insect ridden mattress on an old iron bed, Sounds from the door woke her from sleep Voices so young through the wood so clear.
Door creaking open three young boys did appear, With a lurch to her feet she got through the door, Warm sun on her flesh as she started to run, Mind in a whirl for freedom takes reign.
Now exhausted and sick she hid in the alley, The cold seemed less as the rain came down, Light from a torch glowed from a far, It seemed to warm her as it came closer.
Warmth of the light was all around her, No hunger or pain washed over now, No longer wet or cold to the touch, Light lifted her up no worries she now had.
The two cops looked down at the tiny thin frame, She’s gone one said in a sad voice so soft, The bastards that bring them don’t give a damn, This one is barely eighteen poor kid deserved better.
I hope you are moved by this, as it’s the one thing close to my heart. To see and hear about girls falling for smooth talking guys...
Here we are with the new construction of MY.MA. Design!
A land of approximately 16,000 sqm on music-oriented and evenings.
We have proposed various locations all'Owner of this land, from the classic to the most strange. Once defined the colors and the kind of environment, the owner gave us carte blanche to the realization ...
If you are curious and want to see this beautiful land the slurl is this:
Was war das nicht wieder für ein Tag im SL,also so einiges habe ich ja noch nie erlebt.Aber alles begann ja noch recht ruhig,auch wenn ich noch immer so viele Gedanken im Kopf hatte,erst war alles so klar und nun ist alles so anders.Ich sprach im Issej über das was ich dachte und fühlte,ich suchte einen Strohalm irgend etwas,das mich von meinem Plan abhielt den ich im Kopf hatte,und sie schaffte es,was ich dicher nicht einmal bewußt war gg.Und so traf ich mich mit Cy um ihm zu sagen was los war,und er verstand es wirklich aber das war nicht das einzigste,er gab mir ein Versprechen,und ich weiß das ich ihm vertrauen kann er ist einiger von wenigen,wessen Wort noch was zählt.Später ging ich dann jagen mit Issej,ihr sagte ich auch das nun die erste Hälfte geklärt sei,aber es war noch ein etwas weiterer Weg bis ans Ziel.Aber die erste Hürde war genommen.Nach dem ich eine Weile jagen war zog es mich nach Africa...Cy folgte mir für einen Moment und wir hingen auf allen möglichen Tieren ab.Dann mußter er wieder los und ich...mich zog es auf eine spezielle Sim wo ich noch ein paar Bilder machte,und dann ging das jagen weiter.Und dann erschien Jake,ich traf mich mit ihm,und wir unterhielten uns sehr lange...das Gespräch verlief soweit ganz positiv,und es gab auch vieles worüber wir dann noch lachen konnten.Als es dann schon ziemlich spät wurde zog es mich auf meine Insel zurück,wo ich grad so schön saß..da kam Squall vorbei...an sich hätte ich ja da nichts gegen aber...warum muß er mir die Ohren so voll quatschen?Und Clark der auf der anderen Seite war amüsierte sich köstlich darüber...boah das nennt man Freunde und Nachbarn lach.Naja zum Glück kam Cy auf einen Srung vorbei,und Squall ließ erst einmal von mir ab...doch kaum war Cy weg ging es wieder von vorne los mir platzte schon der Kopf.Warum kann er es nicht einfach verstehen,das er mich bedrängt...mich in den Wahnsinn fast treibt,irgendwo mußte es endlich mal enden,viele haben es versucht ihm klar zu machen das er es sein lassen soll,aber er hörte nicht drauf...ganz im Gegenteil es schien nur immer alles noch schlimmer zu machen.Aber dann kam etwas später noch einmal meine Rettung...Engelchen Cy gg.Lach und was ich dann erlebte war der Hammer,ich hatte wirklich viel Spaß...wir zogen uns Beachwear an gammelten zusammen eng an eng auf der Sitzgruppe herum... flirteten und was weiß ich noch alles,ich weiß das is ne echte Hardcore Action gewesen,aber so langsam weiß ich mir nicht mehr anders zu helfen.Cy kam dann auf die Idee,bevor er gehen würde einen Kuß von mir zu bekommen,also einen Animierten...kaum war ich auf meinem rosa Ball drauf,sprang Squall auf den blauen und ich klar sprang wieder ab...hat er Pech gehabt und er ging damit auch offline.Zu Cy sagte ich ok damit sei das Thema durch und er könne nun auch beruhigt schlafen gehen...lach naja aber ohne einen kleinen gute Nacht Kuss wollte er dann doch net gehen...den bekam er dann auch und sicher es wurde auch auf einem Pic festgehalten..das kommt hier aber nicht rein aus gutem Grund ^^...also wenn es nach ihm gegangen wäre hätter er kein Problem damit,das ich das ins SLP nehme..aber das mach ich nicht.Und so endete eine Bikini Nacht am Strand von Rinoas little Paradies...Ich hüpfte dann auch in mein Bettchen und hüllte mich in Träume ein.
New Advertising Opportunity in Second Life: MotD Posted 3/11/2010 4:20:00 PM by LL Blog - [Show All My Posts]
--- Posted by liana@lindenlab.com on Linden Lab Blog ---
We often hear from inworld organizations and businesses that they need better ways to promote the great experiences, products and services that they offer to Residents. While working to improve other advertising channels in Second Life, such as Classifieds and XstreetSL, we've also been exploring how we can offer additional promotional opportunities that can reach Residents more broadly and effectively.
Advertise Your Business or Organization on Message of the Day Message of the Day (MotD), that brief text message displayed below the progress bar while you're logging into Second Life, is one of the most visible communication channels in Second Life. It's carried by all official Linden Lab Viewers and some third party viewers. For years, Linden Lab has successfully used MotD to promote new products, such as Linden Homes, inworld events and other news items of broad interest to Residents. Last year, we also briefly allowed the big estates to advertise on MotD and the program successfully drove traffic to their websites. Now, as a limited-time trial, we're offering MotD promotional space to a test group of advertisers.
This is a Trial Offer Starting today, we are offering qualified advertisers the opportunity to promote their inworld businesses and organizations using MotD, on a trial basis for about a month. Our goal is to gauge interest from advertisers and get feedback from Residents. We will be responsive to feedback, and the terms of the trial (such as price and duration) will be subject to change based on what we learn. If the trial is successful, then we will make it available to a broader group of advertisers. If the trial does not provide enough value to Residents, advertisers and Linden Lab, then we will revamp or discontinue it.
To start, we will only be accepting a small set of initial participants who meet all of our participation criteria (e.g. account in good standing) and who have a website for their inworld business or organization. In terms of process, potential advertisers will submit a form to Linden Lab that includes their draft MotD message and preferred time block. All messages will be carefully reviewed for adherence to our editorial guidelines. Upon publication, the message will include a link to the URL that they provide.
You can learn more about the cost and terms, and submit an ad request, from the offer description and guidelines on the SL Wiki. A few highlights:
MotD space will be sold in blocks of time.
Since this is a very high visibility communication channel, it is priced accordingly.
Validated nonprofits and educational institutions will receive a discount.
We'll begin scheduling ads once we've received a critical mass of requests.
Your Concerns Are Our Concerns Many of you will be as excited as we are to test this new, much requested, promotional channel. We also know that some of you may be concerned that advertising is going to "take over" Second Life. We share that concern, and it's not what any of us want. We have given this a lot of thought, and the terms and editorial guidelines are carefully designed to encourage quality MotD ads. If we decide to continue this offer after the test period, then we will consider adding refinements like better targeting by language or interests and the ability to opt-out of ads. We believe that additional features, along with good stewardship, can make advertising a benefit to advertisers that also enhances the Second Life experience for all Residents. For now, let me emphasize a few important things about the MotD trial offer:
We will always make it very clear which messages are from advertisers and which are from Linden Lab. Paid advertising will be marked with "Advertisement."
We've set up strict editorial guidelines and a review process to ensure that these promotional messages are engaging, helpful, and attractive to Residents.
If the program isn't successful -- based on advertiser results and Resident feedback -- then we'll modify or end the trial.
Learn More on the Second Life Wiki If you would like to participate in this trial, then please read the offer description, where you'll also find a link to submit your ad request. Additional information about this offer is also available to all in the FAQ.
Requests will be acted on in a first-come first-served basis, so send yours in now!
Give us your thoughts about the MotD advertising trial offer in this thread.
I can't take pics anymore. I thought it was because I was using my TV as my monitor, but since I have this new computer and new monitor, still having same problem.
When I take a pic now, it cuts my head off, or barely has me in the shot at all. Can't figure out what is wrong.
Anyone that has any suggestions of what I can do would be greatly appreciated.
I want to thank each and everyone of you that have cared and showed such kindness and offered a shoulder for me to cry on in this time of my sorrow. You have showed me that I can be get stronger daily and deal with my pain with your help and eventually the pain will ease in time. Thank you to: Chelsie Katie BS&T Twigs Serene Malan Mick
Your hugs and support get me through the day. Thank you
Well tonight i am off to the Styling Creative FS for month of February at CWS in second life, it all the winner of the months contest together and all for you to see them at there best, so if you like to come tonight that is at the 11th March at 6pm SL time start, please IM me on SL and i send you a LM to the place.
from this madness hurt and pain,i wonder if sainity, i will ever regain///glimmers of hope far and apart,the lonely feeling, when will it stop,where did it start?///in the crowded place's,they don't see,the horror, the sadness, inside of me//outside my being, i paint on my face,something for them to see,i try to fit into place///walking ever hollow, cold and empty yet still i do,maybe one will hear it ,maybe even you?///to be understood iv'e give'in up hope,watching the one last cord on this rope,will it be broke///sometimes people so busy ,you wonder if they care,trapped in your lonely,empty dispare. ~*~S.Blackheart~*~